they told me "you're going to be miserable and lonely when you get old with no kids, no one to take care of you!" who said kids always take care of their parents? that's so risky! even if i raised them so well there's a nature of loving parents and i dont know if it will be exists in them or not? and what a selfish reason for having a children? just someone will be there as a caretaker and as I said what guarantees do you have those children will even be around for you? I'm only 18 maybe I will change my mind later but now I'm really convinced and satisfied with my opinion that i would rather adopt than give a birth. so please don't try to work on my emotions like mentioning the biological clock and stuff like that cause you're going to waste your time on nothing. at the same time I'm not trying to push my beliefs on anyone if you're satisfied with having children so go ahead I won't stop you it's your own choices and beliefs. but i know myself so well I know I'll do my best to be a good parent but we all say that when we aren't actually a real parents when we aren't in the real situation but when we are in the situation the nature controls more than your decision of who you want to be. so why I want to risk to be shitty parent just to know if i could be a good one or not? I'm being a little smarter here by not giving a child a shitty life to satisfy myself and to prove if i could be a good mother or not. and what of I was a good parent but my kid was a bad one? how should I even know if my kid will react effectively with my advices? so many great mothers stick with little monsters! as I said I may be change my mind later but now these are my current beliefs.
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